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The Career Pause Problem in Gray Divorce: Qualifying for a Mortgage After 50

by Karla Kyte | Mar 5, 2026 | Mortgage Qualification

One of the most common challenges I see in gray divorce is what I call the career pause problem. This usually happens in marriages where there were children involved. At some point, a decision was made — often mutually — that one person would step back from their...

When Debt Awarded in Divorce Is Not Counted for Mortgage Qualification

by Karla Kyte | Feb 26, 2026 | Mortgage Qualification

One of the most confusing parts of divorce and mortgages is this: A divorce decree does not remove you from a debt — but a lender may still choose not to count that debt when qualifying you for a mortgage. Both statements can be true at the same time. This disconnect...

Doctor Loans, Divorce, and the Hidden Risk of Low Down Payments

by Karla Kyte | Feb 20, 2026 | Mortgage Qualification

Doctor loans are often marketed as an ideal solution for high-income professionals. They allow physicians to purchase homes with very low down payments, often as little as 5%, while avoiding private mortgage insurance and preserving cash for other priorities. But when...

Self-Employment Income and Divorce: Why Qualifying for a Mortgage Is More Complicated Than You Think

by Karla Kyte | Dec 30, 2025 | Mortgage Qualification

If you’re self-employed and going through divorce, understanding how your income is evaluated for a mortgage is critical — and it’s one of the most common places where divorce settlements fall apart after the fact. What many people don’t realize is that lenders are...

Divorce and Credit Scores: What Debts Really Count Against You When Qualifying for a Mortgage

by Karla Kyte | Dec 2, 2025 | Mortgage Qualification

By Karla Kyte, CDLP®, CMA, REM-S Founder, My Divorce Mortgage Planning | Certified Divorce Lending Professional Divorce is messy enough without misinformation clouding your financial future. One of the most misunderstood areas—by consumers and lenders alike—is how...

Graduated or Changing Support Payments? Here’s What You Need to Know About Mortgage Qualification

by Karla Kyte | Oct 9, 2025 | Mortgage Qualification

Support income is often central to staying in homeownership after divorce. But here’s what many people don’t realize: Even if support payments are legally structured or seem generous on paper, they might not help you qualify for a mortgage. In fact, assuming the...

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  • Should You Keep the House in Gray Divorce? Retirement vs. Home Equity
  • The Career Pause Problem in Gray Divorce: Qualifying for a Mortgage After 50
  • Gray Divorce Is a Financial Rebuild — Not Just a Divorce
  • When Debt Awarded in Divorce Is Not Counted for Mortgage Qualification
  • Why a Divorce Decree Does Not Remove You From a Mortgage or Other Joint Debt

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